Friday, December 28, 2018

Good Friday in December: Birth to Dying to Resurrection



Today is a sandwich kind of day. One of those days where you're not sure whether to look back or look forward.

Monday is our big NYE bash, so we don't want to start talking about all our plans for 2019, our "One Word" for the new year, or even all that we're thankful for that happened in 2018.

Then what good is this Friday for?



As I write this, it's dark and bleak outside. We're expecting rain and the temps will likely drop. Nobody wants to go out shopping because they've spent all their money. Everyone is still stuffed from all their Christmas goodies, the presents are all unwrapped and as Erica shared yesterday, the toys were either hits or misses, the clothes either fit or need to be returned, and the pie and cookies are winking from the sideboard, but we don't think we could hold another bite of anything... at least until lunch time.

And it's still dark and dreary outside. Bah-humbug!

Funny how exciting the promise of snow (well, not here in MS, but work with me...) is in the weeks leading up to Christmas, but not so much in those dark, rainy days between Christmas and New Year's Day. As I reflected on this odd time in between all the excitement of Christmas and the dawning of a new year, I'm reminded of the three days between the crucifixion and the resurrection.



For Christians, Jesus's crucifixion and resurrection is the most important week of our faith and the most momentous occasion in all of history because it paves the way for eternal salvation culminating in the Second Coming. Second to Jesus's crucifixion and resurrection is His birth. Here in Seekerville, we've just celebrated an entire month of Advent, a time of expectant waiting and preparation for that birth. But did you know that part of the description of Advent is also a celebration and reflection on His return at the Second Coming?

Mary's travails to give birth to her first child and the Son of God were probably the darkest moments of her young life. Who knows how long she was in labor? Could it have been three whole days? Perhaps. The three days that Jesus was in the tomb were dark and dreary for his disciples, who believed that all hope was lost. So it seems that the dark, dreary days after all the hoopla of our Christmas season might feel like a deflated balloon for some, but joy is coming and that makes this a Good Friday in December.

Christmas is not really about the presents or the festive lights or the gazillion family photos we all shared on Facebook on Christmas morning, although I enjoyed all of it just as much as anybody! It's about the babe that lay in a manger whose mother had to change his stinky diapers that probably started full force about the third day. It's about the man 33 (ironic?) years later who died on a cross and whose body decomposed for three days before the sun rose and He rose with it.



January 1st is coming. A New Year, a new beginning. But in the meantime, think about those few days right after Jesus's birth, about the uncertainty that a young mother and father were facing as they learned to take care of a newborn. Reflect on that same babe, Jesus, our Lord and Savior, lying in a tomb, waiting to be resurrected and reborn on Resurrection Sunday.

I think you'll find it's a Good Friday in December after all.

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    1. Yes, Mary, it is. We're gonna focus on Jesus today. :)

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  2. Pam, this is so touching. When I think of what that family was willing to do I stand amazed. How many would say yes to such things? Oh, God picked wisely!!!!!

    And yes, this is perfect as we wait for the thrumming of a New Year... fresh and unsoiled.... and then greet it here in Seekerville with Monday's party!!!!

    But this is a perfect weekend of contemplation. Joyous contemplation. For unto us a Son is given!!!

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    1. Ah, Ruthy, you just turned on the waterworks. :)

      Mary and Joseph were so brave. And based on scripture, they made all the right decisions before and after Jesus was born. And even the shepherds, the wise men, Anna and Simeon.

      Just think about it... we traditionally think of three wise men and three shepherds (even though I don't think scripture specifies how many), but if you add all those people up... Mary, Joseph, 3 wise men, 3 shepherds, Anna, Simeon .... that's 10 people....

      10 people who kept God's promises close to their heart, 10 people who didn't cave to Satan's whispers to sell out God's son for a few pieces of silver...

      10 people who were of such godly character and integrity that God could have chosen them to be an earthly king or queen or part of the judicial system of the day.

      But he chose them to keep the secret of one tiny babe in their heart.

      I wonder what those 10 thought as they watched Jesus for 33 years. I know there's a spotlight on Mary at the cross, but the others? But who's to say that the wise men didn't seek him or watch him from afar? What if they continued to search in later years. What if one of the shepherds moved to Bethlehem and realized who he was, but still kept the secret in his heart?

      Those are the kind of people you want at your back, that's for sure. :)

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    2. Wow, Pam, this just got deeper.

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    3. We've always worked and served in small churches, and when I was doing Christmas pageants I had it down to a science: if I had seven children I could pull one off. One Mary, one Joseph, minimum one shepherd, minimum one angel, and three wise men because that's what people expect. A live Baby Jesus was always a plus, but we couldn't always get one.

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  3. Pam, this is deep and something I've been thinking about over the Holidays. There are really two Christmases, the world's "Christmas" (plastic pooping polar bears and "Gramma Got Run Over By a Reindeer") and the Christian Christmas (giving gifts to our loved ones to show our love, Kneeling Santa, birthday cake for Jesus, adorable children dressed as angels and shepherds, treasured carols from across the ages). But even the Christian Christmas isn't always there for us. An older person in a nursing home who's outlived everyone, a believer imprisoned for their faith in a harsh totalitarian country. The recently bereaved. Not everyone can have the traditional Christian Christmas. But everyone can have Advent.
    And you don't have to clean up the wrappings.

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    1. Everyone can have Advent.

      Well put, Kaybee! And the fact that Jesus was born in a stable and placed in a manger underscores what you just said. His wasn't the sanitized, wear-a-mask-wash-your-hands-before-you-touch-the-baby birth we know here in American today.

      Mary didn't have an epidural or pain killers. She didn't even have a midwife as far as we know. She only had Joseph to assist her, her husband, yes, but a man she hadn't even been intimate with.

      We love the story of Jesus's birth because it's portrayed as beautiful.... the way scripture describes it makes it so. But on the other hand, his lowly birth, poor upbringing, and horrific death can also speak to us during the worst of trials.

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    2. Yeah, AND I love those depictions of the Nativity where Mary looks like she's about to run a half-marathon. She probably did recover fairly quickly because she was so young, but Give Me A Break.

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  4. Missed you guys. My husband has been on vacation so we've been out and about, day trips, eating out and movies.
    It's dark here too, Pam, a bout of freezing rain and snow in our northern climates.
    I refer to the stretch between Christmas and New Year's as the Week Between. Things slow down for a lot of us (I'm in print journalism and trust me, NOBODY wants to talk to me this week). It's a time of reflection as Ruthy said, a time to think about What Just Happened, a time to think about what we could and couldn't have done, should and shouldn't have done in 2018 (peace, kiddies, it's almost over). And it's a time of what's done is done. You can't go back and do it over. Take your lumps, take your losses.
    I'M COMMITTED TO...being more disciplined about my "real" writing in 2019. I did meet goals this year, but not as consistently as I would have liked.
    I'M COMMITTED TO...being a better encourager of other writers. A rising tide etc. etc.
    I'M COMMITTED TO...getting a better handle on technology. The book I have coming out is an e-book. God's little joke? Or God's little nudging?
    I'M COMMITTED TO...building a better platform and being better at Social Media, although not at the expense of everything else.
    I'M COMMITTED TO...remembering why I do this.
    Back later,
    Your own, your only Kaybee

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  5. Sheesh. I don't show up for days, and then I can't stop talking.

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    1. We LIKE it when you share with us, Kathy! Your thoughts are always welcome and encouraging and deep. And voicing our intentions for the new year to friends is a time-proven way of committing to them. Solidifying them.

      I love your "Not everyone can have the traditional Christian Christmas. But everyone can have Advent."

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    2. Kathy, we're glad to see you again!! And to "hear" your voice!

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  6. Thank you, Pam, for this beautiful reminder. I like the idea of making this "tween" time a Friday of contemplation. Reflection.

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    1. Thank you, Glynna. I was supposed to baby sit today, but the parents are off work, so I do have more time for a quiet day of reflection. Although the whirlwind of cleaning and cooking for tonight's celebration is coming... :)

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  7. Pam, what a unique and beautiful analogy to the days between Christmas and New Year's -- I never looked at it that way before, so bravo on a truly enlightening perspective!

    You said, "Today is a sandwich kind of day. One of those days where you're not sure whether to look back or look forward."

    Soooo true!! And as important and wonderful as Christmas is, it's just the beginning of the pinnacle of a Christian's faith -- salvation through the death and resurrection of our Savior. So, I love your perspective on this -- thank you!!

    I wish you and all of Seekerville a happy and healthy new year!

    Hugs,
    Julie

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    1. Same to you, Julie. Christmas is so much more than tinsel and bows. I wish the world could see that.

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  8. Pam, we're still celebrating with my husband's family, so I haven't hit the sandwich time yet. But I will definitely re-read this when it hits for me.

    I can't believe how quickly the new year is getting here.

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    1. Well, we're still celebrating, too. We delayed Christmas at my house until tonight because of a bout of the flu in one family. Other than an all day cooking marathon (but soup and chili shouldn't be THAT hard, yes?), this is a day of relaxing and reflection. :)

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    2. We're still celebrating. We do Christmas with my sister's family on the Saturday between Christmas and New Year's, and we do Christmas with my husband's family on Twelfth Night. Good way to stretch out the season. I have the tree lit this morning because it's such a dreary day.

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  9. I keep trying to figure out what day it is since my husband is off of work all week long.
    It has been a good time to catch up on some of my reading 😁

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    1. Sharon, my husband is off too and that's thrown my schedule way off. But it's worth it. A good way to bridge this year and next.

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    2. Our schedules get so messed up when everyone's off work. Every day feels like Saturday. Which is a wonderful feeling! Too bad it can't last. :)

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  10. So beautifully said, Pam! That is a wonderful way to look at this "odd" week on the calendar. Thank you so much for sharing that. It makes the darkness certainly look less bleak and reminds us that God is the ultimate Storyteller because we all know that the blackest moment always comes right before the dawn!

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    1. So true! Glad to see you in Seekerville today, Glynis.

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  11. Thanks for these thoughts. I haven't really slowed down enough to hit the post-Christmas slump yet, but I am sure I will need these thoughts next week when I do. :-)

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    1. :) You know, I love the quiet time myself. :) In years past when I got minimal time off for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's Day, I envied those who had 2 weeks off.

      Now that I am working from home, I love it. I love not having to get out in the cold or rain early in the mornings.

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  12. Interesting post, Pam. I hadn't thought about that. I am off soon to celebrate Christmas with my family. So Christmas isn't over for me yet.

    Looking forward to the party here on New Year's Eve.

    Please enter me in the drawing.

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    1. Happy late Christmas, Sandy. I'm a bit busy today as well, cooking chili and potato soup for our delayed Christmas as well. Must get back to the kitchen!

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  13. Wonderful thoughts, Pam.

    I've always loved this in-between time of the year. Some years we've had Christmas celebrations on New Year's Day, but other years are like this one...Christmas is over, but the fragrance still lingers. We've celebrated Christ's birth, and He lives on.

    So the in-between week is wonderful for rest and reflection. Contemplating the new year in Christ.

    Merry after-Christmas Good Friday to you all!

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  14. Thank you for this Pam. Very beautiful reflection. I have found myself in a different state of mind this holiday season, more reflective I guess. Christmas traditions that I had taken for granted in years past have held more meaning this year.
    I think I like the idea of making the week between Christmas and New Years "Reflection Week" to put us in the mindset to start the new year with a fresh start and a thankful heart!

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    1. Reflection Week sure has a nice ring to it! Thanks Holly. :)

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  15. I've never compared this time of year to the three days between the crucifixion and the resurrection, but it's a good analogy. Before Christmas I did my reflecting back on the year. Now I'm ready to look forward.

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  16. My post disappeared because I couldn't get the mouse to click on publish. No way I can repeat what was on my mind and the room is spinning due to vertigo from all the rain we are getting. 4 inches and counting. Time to go to bed and see if the spinning stops soon. The Lord is good all the time.

    I do want to say I loved this post.

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  17. Thanks for the reminder. It is indeed a time for reflection.

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  18. Good day Pam! Like I said in yesterday's post...I personally love this time between Christmas and New Years. It feels kind of like a pause button on a remote, a time where I can breathe again after all the celebrations, cooking, decorating, wrapping and etc. A time of reflection and the anticipation of another year. This in-between time is refreshing to me :-)

    Reflecting back to the last year, I can see the hand of God on our lives. All the times He's been there no matter the circumstance or situation. I'm so thankful that I can lean on Him when things don't go my way, or I just need someone to pour my heart out to, or just to say thank you to. What a gift He gave when He gave His only Son for me! Just think, I can have an audience with the King of kings and Lord of lords anytime I want....now if that doesn't blow your mind, I'm not sure what would :-)

    No need to toss my name in the hat for your giveaway as I've read these for you being on your team. May 2019 bring your household many more blessings than you imagined!

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  19. Thanks for these wonderful thoughts. It is a great reminder of why the baby came. Lee-Ann B

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  20. Hi Pam:

    "Then what good is this Friday for?"

    For some reason the above quote struck me as being very humorous. Like poor little 'Friday' had to justify its existence to us!

    I kind of think of Good Friday and Easter as being continuous and timeless. It seems to me that they are the font where the grace comes out and sustains our world. Every Friday is Good Friday since the first one.

    In a more pedestrian sense, "Call the Midwife: Christmas Special" repeats in Oklahoma tonight at 7 pm. Now that's good!

    Vince

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  21. I usually end up thinking about what all I want to accomplish next year. I love the thought of starting new and fresh and it invigorates me!

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  22. Sorry for going AWOL for 5 hours, but when 8 adults and three kiddos show up for Christmas soup and chili night, then there's no time at all for computer time.

    A grand time was had by all. Love having babies around to open presents. So fun! :)

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  23. What a touching post, Pam. Full of insight and thought-provoking. Although I'm not a writer, I love reading all the posts on Seekerville. There are so many talented and amazing people here.

    I've had my eye on your books, but I haven't had a chance to read them, so please throw my name in the drawing. I've heard so many great things about them!

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