by Guest Carla Laureano
The first book in my Supper Club series, The Saturday Night Supper Club, came
about because I was undergoing what I like to call “home study culinary
school.” Armed with textbooks and gastronomy books, I was determined to turn
myself into a real cook, not just someone who could follow a recipe. My
discoveries made their way into my writing life, and a series was born.
The second book, Brunch
at Bittersweet Café, came along a lot more naturally: I’ve been an
obsessive baker since, well, birth, so it wasn’t a stretch to write a pastry
chef with nostalgic ties to her grandmother’s recipes. In the course of a
lifetime of baking, the last twelve of those spent living at about six thousand
feet above sea level, I’ve learned just as much about myself as I have about
the science of baking.
Lesson #1: Most
problems don’t come from a lack of ability; they come from a lack of planning.
With the exception of macarons, which at my altitude seem to
require a mixture of black magic and pixie dust to perfect, baking isn’t all
that hard. After all, the interaction of ingredients is fairly predictable, and
if you’re working off a decent recipe, you can be more or less assured of the
finished product. The problems come in when you don’t read the recipe through
and prepare your ingredients in advance. Who hasn’t discovered halfway through
that they’re missing cream of tartar or some other obscure ingredient you were sure was hidden in your pantry? And
while some recipes are forgiving of a quick trip to the store, others are
completely ruined by your lack of planning.
I’ve found that to be a surprisingly apt comparison to life.
Most of us are capable of more than we think; we simply need to learn to plan
ahead, take our time, and not leap into situations before we’ve thought them
through.
Lesson #2: Problems
are just a matter of perspective.
Going back to the macaron reference, I have only ever made
one perfect batch of macarons, the result of several failed batches and minuscule
tweaks recorded faithfully in my notebook. Recently, I wanted to make a batch
and after searching high and low, determined that I must have accidentally
thrown away or given away that notebook when I was whittling down my cookbook
collection. Worse yet, the website from which I got the original recipe is
permanently gone. I had to start over from a brand-new recipe.
It was a disaster.
Flat, gooey, stuck-to-the-mat macarons. Besides learning a)
to be more careful when I’m cleaning and b) not to use that recipe again, I
found that even the biggest disaster can be salvaged with the right
perspective. They might not have been macarons, but made with copious amounts
of almond flour, sugar, egg whites, and cocoa, they were still absolutely
delicious. I called them chocolate almond chews and ate them with a nice cup of
coffee. My problem was turned into an afternoon snack. Sometimes all we need is
a shift in perspective and that failure doesn’t look so bad after all.
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Lesson #3: There’s no
disaster that can’t be fixed with a little chocolate.
This one is pretty self-explanatory, but I’ll elaborate
anyway. I made a batch of Girl Scout Thin Mint clones on Christmas Eve. Because
it was a paleo recipe, the dough was a little fussy and a good portion of the
cookies I cut out cracked or broke apart. I pieced them back together on the
baking sheet, sealed the cracks the best I could, and hoped for the best.
When the cookies came out of the oven, they were misshapen
and lumpy from handling, a little lopsided, and not all that pretty.
Fortunately, I still had the chocolate coating to go, and when they were
finally enrobed and cooled, they were perfect glossy circles. (They also
happened to be delicious.)
Let’s just say that when you’re having a really bad day and
just need to get to the finish line, there’s no shame in smoothing over the
cracks by hiding in your closet with a Hershey bar.
Lesson #4: Sometimes
you have to cut your losses and start over.
Before I learned I was gluten intolerant, I was a huge bread
baker. People are scared of homemade bread because they think it’s difficult,
but the long process of mixing, kneading, and rising is actually pretty
forgiving with lots of chances to fix what’s going wrong.
However, I did have one recipe using some alternative flours
that must have been misprinted, because I couldn’t get the ingredients mixed to
anything approximating a dough: it was shaggy and lumpy and it wouldn’t come
together. Adding more water only made it slimy; adding more flour made it
grainy. After struggling with it for half an hour, I finally turned the
contents of the bowl out in the trash. It pained me to waste the expensive
ingredients, but at that point, I could tell there was no salvaging the recipe.
Why throw good time after bad money?
Sometimes in life, despite your best efforts, you can’t
salvage a situation. Maybe it’s a job that didn’t work out, a friendship that
has gone from being supportive to toxic, or just a recipe gone wrong. If you’ve
given it your best effort, there’s no shame in calling it quits. Sometimes the
bigger waste is sticking it out when you know the outcome is never going to
change.
Lesson #5: When all
else fails, turn to the professionals.
I consider myself a pretty good baker, but there are just
times when the recipe doesn’t come together, my power goes out in the middle of
a bake, or I run out of time to finish what I intended. That’s when I go
straight to the professionals: my local bakery. Sure, I might have wanted to
present something home-baked, but there are times when the outcome is more
important than the process.
The older I get, the more I realize that it’s okay not to do
everything yourself. Some things, like taxes and hair color, I believe are best
left to professionals. Other things can be great to DIY, but they just don’t
fall within my priorities. I might be able to occasionally send a plate of
homemade chocolate chip cookies to a school party, but I was never going to be
like the preschool mom who, on snack day, brought an entire tray of beautifully
iced sugar cookies with each child’s name piped in script across the center.
Most of the time, store-bought and boxed was going to have to be good enough.
Just because you can doesn’t mean you
always must.
Now it’s your turn! Tell me, what life lessons have you learned from
your own culinary adventures?
(Comment below for your chance to win a copy of Brunch at Bittersweet Cafe, courtesy of Tyndale House Publishers)
Carla Laureano is the RITA Award–winning author of contemporary inspirational romance and Celtic fantasy (as C. E. Laureano). A graduate of Pepperdine University, she worked as a sales and marketing executive for nearly a decade before leaving corporate life behind to write fiction full-time.
She currently lives in Denver with her husband and two sons, where she writes during the day and cooks things at night. Connect with Carla on her website: http://www.carlalaureano.com/
From the RITA Award–winning author of Five Days in Skye comes a sweet, romantic treat that will leave you hungry for more.
Baker and pastry chef Melody Johansson has always believed in finding the positive in every situation, but seven years after she moved to Denver, she can’t deny that she’s stuck in a rut. One relationship after another has ended in disaster, and her classical French training is being wasted on her night job in a mediocre chain bakery. Then the charming and handsome private pilot Justin Keller lands on the doorstep of her workplace in a snowstorm, and Melody feels like it’s a sign that her luck is finally turning around.
Justin is intrigued by the lively bohemian baker, but the last thing he’s looking for is a relationship. His own romantic failures have proven that the demands of his job are incompatible with meaningful connections, and he’s already pledged his life savings to a new business venture across the country—an island air charter in Florida with his sister and brother-in-law.
Against their better judgment, Melody and Justin find themselves drawn together by their unconventional career choices and shared love of adventure. But when an unexpected windfall provides Melody with the chance to open her dream bakery-café in Denver with her best friend, chef Rachel Bishop, she’s faced with an impossible choice: stay and put down roots with the people and place she’s come to call home . . . or give it all up for the man she loves.
Carla! I started reading it on the plane and am loving the book!
ReplyDeleteYay! Makes you hungry, doesn't it? For some reason, every book of Carla's I read at some point made me hungry. Lol.
DeleteI'm so glad to hear that, Tina! Thanks! Hope they had good snacks on the plane! :D
DeleteHaving a great book is what makes a flight bearable! :)
DeleteInteresting, Carla. Also ironic: I'm leaving in about an hour to decorate and pack Valentine cookies for police, fire and shut-ins with our women's group. I've never been able to make bread and my pie crusts aren't great, but I do okay on cookies, squares and bars. Writing IS like baking, or like laundry: you've got to know when to fold. These are good lessons not only for writing, but for life.
ReplyDeleteWe lived in Colorado Springs for four years. I did okay after I learned to adapt my recipes. Also used a High Altitude cookbook.
Thank you for sharing!
Kathy Bailey
Hi Kathy! I love your analogy of it being like laundry - learn when to fold. Lol. I'm not a baker myself, and the numerous mishaps I've had on my baking experiments have made for some great funny stories
DeleteThat's awesome of you! Here's my secret--I can do bread and pie crusts, but my cookies at high altitude are still not all that great. I'm a constant fiddler... I change the recipe every time. I recently sold my high altitude cookbook because I was so disappointed in it!
DeleteKathy, pie crusts are something I've never been able to master either. Now that I've accepted that, I simply use the Pillsbury refrigerated crusts and have lowered my stress level immensely.
DeleteHi Carla! Alas, I did not get the genetic markers for enjoying cooking or baking. My mother is an excellent baker and a good cook (although she doesn't enjoy cooking as much as baking), and I am neither. That gene definitely skipped me!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhen I have to be in the kitchen, it's frustrating and makes me cranky, so I avoid it as much as possible. :)
Love the book cover! It's making me hungry!
Beth, I'm sure your mom is happy to hook you up with plenty of sweet treats. ;)
DeleteFortunately, we all got the genes for eating everyone else's treats. :) Glad you love the book cover! Thanks!
DeleteLOL Bethy! You definitely got Ruthy's humor gene! *wink wink
DeleteHi Carla. I used to love baking but now that I'm an empty-nester I don't do it a lot. Fun post and I totally get it. What a great analogy. Your books look wonderful and make me hungry!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Cindy! Hope you enjoy the book!
DeleteI don't blame you for not baking much... that would mean you'd have to eat them all yourself and that could get out of hand fast!
Hi Cindy! There are plenty of great bakers all around. I have a few favorites in the area too, so I get it.
DeleteCarla, I love baking/cooking. It's often a sort of therapy for me. So this series sounds right up my alley. Time to make a visit to Amazon.
ReplyDeleteA woman after my own heart! I think you'll find it inspirational. :) The series came out of my determination to make myself an excellent cook, not just an excellent recipe follower. I still use them, I just don't necessarily need them!
DeleteI love cooking more than baking. Cooking can definitely be therapeutic for me too!
DeleteCarla, welcome! I loved this post! I can so relate to the cooking mistakes. My worst mistake seems to always be discovering I don't have all the ingredients.
ReplyDeleteI'm a recipe and cookbook collector and a wanna-be chef. I've taken one cooking class and loved it! And my husband just bought me a gift certificate for another class for my birthday in January. I really should try to use my love of cooking in my writing! I'm so glad you shared with us today!
Thanks, Missy! I'm glad to find another cookbook collector. Though I recently downsized my collection significantly to my favorite 40. That should tell you how many I actually had!
DeleteI've been wanting to take a pastry class at the local cooking school, but sadly, discovered I'm intolerant of gluten! Until they have a gluten-free one, I'm afraid I would just be torturing myself.
OOoo! More food in books is perfect!
DeleteCarla! Such a yummy post! I like to create my own recipes so I never bake...because baking is specific. You can't mix and match and hope something delicious comes out of the oven. Give me a stir fry that allows me to be creative and I'm in my happy place! :)
ReplyDeleteLife's lessons? Hmmm? Yours are all so good...and so true.
I had to learn that I can't do it all, which you mentioned as well. Maybe my cooking analogy would include an expansive menu that needs more prep and cooking time than I have on that particular day.
Love the blurb for your next release. I'm screaming for your heroine to wave goodbye to Denver and take the first flight to Florida! :)
Thanks for being with us today. Care for a store bought, gluten-free chocolate chip cookie?
I will absolutely take the chocolate chip cookie, thanks! Experimenting is definitely harder with baking, though I'm currently adapting some old favorites to be paleo, which is basically nothing but experimentation. But at least it's delicious experimentation... I'm making some meringue cookies today, I think, which are already gluten-free.
DeleteFUN! I love stir fry dishes anytime!
DeleteI have picky eaters so cooking is not fun but baking, that is for me alone and a delight. :)
ReplyDeleteIf the picky eaters are small ones, have hope...they do expand their horizons if you keep trying! I'm surprised at what my 9yo will try now.
DeleteBut baking...yes, I've always been more of a baker until recently.
Sweet Toni!
DeleteI enjoy making pies. There is something therapeutic about making my own crust and making it pretty. I didn't like doing it at first, but the more I did it, the more I came to love it. I think this is true in life. Sometimes difficult things are...difficult until we do it enough to where it is not so difficult. Profound! Snort!
ReplyDeleteI'm looking forward to reading this book (that is in my TBR pile!)
Thanks for sharing!!!
I'm impressed. Until a couple of years ago, pie crusts were my nemesis. You know what turned it all around for me, though? A good pre-marked silicone baking mat for rolling out my dough. So much easier to size it and then get it into the plate! I no longer hated pie crust once I got it for Christmas.
DeleteHope you enjoy the book!
NICE! Pies are always so pretty!
DeleteThere was a time in my life when baking every day kept me sane, literally. I had a sign on my wall: "life is uncertain, eat dessert first"....
ReplyDeleteI had to take that sign down, and bake less for health reasons, but I still find baking therapeutic. And I learned that just because you baked it from scratch, you don't have to eat it. I suppose that might apply to life in some way? I'll have to think about that.
Interesting!
DeleteI've found the teacher's lounge at school is always appreciative of the leftovers!
DeleteHi Carla:
ReplyDeleteI really like your name, "Laureano", which seems to be an Italianized version of the Latin word for "Award winner." Given the first line in your bio, that names seem very apropos.
I love baking but I'd never want to be a chef because I wouldn't eat most of the things they make on those cooking shows. I wouldn't even want to taste them!
But baking: "tutto è delizioso".
What I learned from baking is: have all the ingredients pre-measured and set out in little glass bowls. No looking for or measuring out things when time in baking is so often critical. Preheat everything even the pans you are going bake your popovers in. Put back up and clean everything as soon after you use it as possible so you don't have this big discouraging mess when you are finished. When possible watch it done on YouTube by three different cooks before you try a recipe for the first time.
Very important: learn more than one way to how to tell when the baking is finished. The time between overdone and underdone can often be cruelly short in baking!
I'm very interested in your books. I've read many of the Goldy Schulz Catering Mysteries by Diane Mott Davidson and the baking trilogy by Sandra Byrd, "French Twist," about going to a top French baking school near Paris. That's more like West Point than baking!
Please place me in the drawing.
Vince
Hi Vince! Sweet! I didn't know that about Carla's last name. That is pretty cool. Thanks for sharing.
DeleteHi Vince! The last name is actually Portugese, thanks to my husband (technically his grandfather, who married into a Filipino family), but you are absolutely right about the Latin roots. You definitely seem like serious baker... I think you might like the book in that case! Thanks for stopping by.
DeleteI love baking and like cooking. As far as life lessons go sometimes following the directions works (most of the time) but sometimes trying it a different way can be amazing and fulfilling! I can't wait to read your book. I LOVED the setting in the other two of yours I read, it was such a treat!
ReplyDeleteNice Emilee! Love it. Thank you!
DeleteThanks for the kind words, Emilee!
DeleteYou're so welcome! Love the cover too!
DeleteGreat post. I find the best-tasting desserts and recipes usually come from the biggest messes. Either that, or I just don't know how to bake without making a mess! Ha!
ReplyDeleteCan you actually bake without making a mess? :D If so, I'm no good at it!
DeleteHhahaha.Hot mess is good, isn't it?
DeleteHi Carla, thanks for this post. I came from a home where cooking was bland and then I married a French Canadian where food is art! Needless to say, adding spices makes a world of difference, and my M-I-L's pastries are to die for. LOL I think the life lesson from my cooking experiences is that it's okay to be brave and try new things, sometimes you might be surprised what a little lavender can do. :) (I've enjoyed being on your launch team and I purchased my own copy already!) Lee-Ann B
ReplyDeleteThose are great life lessons, Lee-Ann! Glad you're having fun with the launch. <3
DeleteLucky you! And great lessons!
DeleteI love cooking and baking, but I’ve never really associated it with life lessons until reading this. Thank you for sharing your insight. Blessings
ReplyDeleteOh, it's definitely showed me how little patience I have! Thanks for stopping by.
DeleteIt's great to see life lessons in our everyday activities, isn't it?
DeleteHi Carla, I enjoyed reading about your cooking experiences. I have learned that there are some recipes that best used when you have plenty of time; some recipes that should never be adapted so that you can save calories and some recipes don't always have to remain just the way that your mom or grandmother always made them. Case in point for the latter: Macaroni and cheese was always baked when I was growing up. This took time and it also required a hot oven even in summer. The first year of my married life I witnessed an older and more experienced cook melting the cheese, milk and butter on top of the stove, adding the cooked macaroni to the pan and then bringing it to the table WITHOUT baking it. Now, in this day and time, this might seem old hat because of the pre-packaged macaroni and cheese mixes but this was long before these were on the market. And as much as I love pies with homemade crust and meringue, I often resort to purchased crusts and Cool Whip or Whipped Cream for the topping. Are these refused because I didn't prepare them as Mom and Grandmother did? What do you think?
ReplyDeleteI hope to read your book very soon. Blessings!
I think there's absolutely nothing wrong with shortcuts, especially when it makes the difference between pie and no pie. ALWAYS err on the side of pie! :)
DeleteNothing wrong with it at all!
DeleteWhat a fun post! I've learned a few lessons that cover both my cooking and my writing...the first is "This is going to get messy." and the second is "There's nothing that can't be cleaned up later."
ReplyDeleteI tend to cook with every pot, bowl, spoon, and kitchen towel I own. Afterwards I have a grand cleanup.
When I am writing, I need to remember to give myself permission to make a mess and get it on the page. I can always clean it up later.
That's a really good analogy, Erica. And as you get more skilled, the process gets less messy, too...
DeleteWhat a great post, Carla! As I read about going to the store for a forgotten ingredient and the impact this can have on a recipe, I had to grin. I was making ten (yes, 10) pies for a fundraiser last November when my pastry blender broke. Completely fell apart. I had to go buy another one. Thankfully, I was just working on streusel topping so nothing was harmed.
ReplyDeleteBut there are those times when I haven't planned well ahead of time and my plans were thwarted or completely derailed. I like the Boy Scout motto: "Be Prepared." :) It helps in writing too. :)
I've found that, when I've made a certain recipe a number of times, there's a flow and a rhythm to preparing it. In writing, as I get into a story, and I work on it regularly, I find my flow for that story, and that always feels good.
I loved all your real life applications and the recipes you mentioned sound so good.
PS—this is Jeanne Takenaka. Not sure why my name didn't show up. :/
DeleteThat's a really good analogy, Jeanne! There's definitely some parallels there.
DeleteI just got home from work and then I went to the gym so first chance I have had to look at Seekerville today. I haven't even been able to read it yet but it looks good and I definitely plan to read it. I wanted to check in though and have my name put in the drawing.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Sandy! Good luck in the drawing!
DeleteI've learned that no matter what life throws at me I can always find something food-wise that I can go to. Even with all my health issues I've been learning how to eat better to heal my body instead of hurting it. It changes everything!
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You know I relate to all your food issues, Abby... sometimes I miss being able to cook/eat my own things, but all the work comes in handy now when I have to reinvent old favorite recipes!
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