Monday, August 1, 2022

Gone fishin’


 I’ve had one of those Writer’s Collisions’ this weeks.

I think of it as a Three Book Pile-up

So a published book, for me, has three rounds of revisions.

The first one is the big one, lots of in depth edits to deal with.

I do those revisions and send the book back.

Then the book comes back with that I think of as line-edits. Misplaced commas, efforts to change from passive voice to active. Small changes but plenty of them.

I do those revisions and send the book back.

Then a third round they call galley edits. This is the book, all laid out as it’ll appear in print. Read it through one more time. Minor edits. You want to change the word books to boots, okay. But keep the page to the page. You want to add a sentence, you have to take out a sentence. Don’t add so much you extend the word count.

So right now, I’ve just finished a book, then BOOM BOOM two finished books hit my inbox. One in the first round of edits, one in the second. Plus I need to read through the newly finished book and send it in.

Add in, I’m on vacation. But since I write late at night, usually after everyone goes to bed, I rarely fail to get work done every day.


Add in, my mom passed away two weeks ago. A sad and confusing time because so many of my reflexes are rooted in, “I can’t wait to tell Mom this, or show her this picture.” Amazing amount of work involved in losing my mom, wrapped in grief.

She was 94 years and not well. A woman of great, enduring faith. So the only true grief is missing her because she’s somewhere glorious.


Add into this, a new grandbaby. Such a pretty little thing. Five weeks old now.

And now I've gone fishin'.



Anyway, I’m not writing much in this blog except just for whining about how very busy and hectic my life is and everyone’s is so I'm not even special!!!! 

My little 'inside baseball' about revisions was about all I could manage this month.

So Happy August Seekerville

22 comments:

  1. Your mom was such a lovely lady, so kind and thoughtful and just plain Midwest Nice... The Lord gives... and He takes away. Blessed be His name and that new grandbaby IS SO STINKIN' CUTE!!!!! We have and we hold and we say hellos and goodbyes and they can both be hard.

    God bless you, my friend.

    And no, your ride isn't special in that it's different... but it's special because it's yours.

    Love you, brat.

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    1. Highs and lows. New grandbaby and losing a loved one. Add in work and...that's life.

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  2. Mary, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm not sure there is one quite like saying goodbye to a mother. Prayers of comfort and peace during such a hard time, but aren't we fortunate we haven't lost them, because we know right where they are? God is good. What a sweet baby! Congrats!

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  3. Sorry to hear about your mom. Wish I had known her. But thrilled to hear about the baby. Mare, there are seasons in life, and this is yours to -- go fishin'. The writing will still be there.
    Kathy Bailey
    Your Kaybee
    Dispensing pearls of wisdom in New Hampshire

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    1. Thanks, Kathy. Yes a vacation is just what I need.

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  4. I am so sorry about your mom as I know how hard it is. After four and a half years I still often think I want to call my mom to tell her something. But thrilled you have another grandchild to hold and love. Enjoy your vacation time. You deserve it. I will be reading The Element of Love soon. It is my September book group book.

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    1. Sandy, thanks for the words of experience. And thank you for using the Element of Love for your book group!

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  5. It's funny, isn't it? When we think about losing our mothers, we're sure the world will stop when it happens...
    But life doesn't stop - and we learn to go on without them.
    Enjoy your vacation and time with family!

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    1. It doesn't stop, even if we wish it would just pause for a few minutes!

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  6. After my mother died, I caught myself so many times thinking I needed to tell her about something special. Six months after her death, my husband, children and I moved to Germany. So many new sights to see and I kept thinking about my mother and how much she would have enjoyed hearing about our new adventures. You're in my prayers!

    Oh, my! Those fish are so big. Will there be a fish fry while on vaca or do the guys catch and release?

    Precious new grandchild!

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    1. Definite fish fry and hopefully a bunch to freeze and take home.

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  7. Ah, Mary, like everyone else above, I'm sorry to hear of your mom passing. She passed in 2013; I was at work and got "the call to get there NOW" and I stayed with her until she took her last breath. She was a stroke victim, and her life was miserable and while I miss her terribly, she's not suffering to swallow her Coca Cola thickened into a mush. I wish you well as you tackle all those edits and remember to have fun in all life's issues.

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    1. Karen they gave my mom thickened water. I'd never heard of that before. Like different thicknesses, nectar, honey, mush. So much I didn't know.

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  8. Your mom was the sweetest lady and an aficionado of the homemade-from-scratch cinnamon roll. She will be missed by people but by no one more than you. God bless you through your grief and loneliness. I promise, it will lighten.

    Glad you're off on vacation, though. Family, food, fun - and maybe a bit of work sandwiched in. I hope the good times massively outweigh the edits!

    Happy to see the fish are biting, and if not catch-and-release, I hope they are very tasty on the grill or in the frying pan, LOL. Safe travels, dearheart!!

    -audra

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    1. We're fry daddy fish eaters, Audra. :) No catch and release here!

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  9. Sympathy and prayers in the loss of your Mom, Mary. I still my Mom who died 19 Yrs. ago.

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    1. Thanks, Jackie. My dad's been gone for twenty years, a length of time that shocks me. And I still catch myself wondering what Dad would have to say about this. I'm the same with my in-laws, whom I dearly love. Now add Mom.

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  10. I'm so sorry for your loss. Dorothy was a treasure. I hope you have a chance to reflect and relax and remember on your holiday.

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  11. Mary, so sorry you lost your mom. There is something about losing a mom that is extra hard. IMHO. I'll be praying peace and comfort for you and your family. In the meantime, I hope you can get lots of extra snuggles with that pretty little doll in your arms.

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  12. I'm so sorry about your mom, Mary. I came pretty late to the Seekers, so I didn't know her like the others, but she sounds like a wonderful, loving woman.

    I'm going to agree with Jan on how odd it feels that the world keeps going after a loved one dies We lost my dad after a long illness 21 years ago, and it shocked me how quickly hospice removed all trace of his illness.

    I'm so thankful for faith that assures us we'll a
    See them again.

    God bless.

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  13. I am deeply sorry about your mother's passing. Even though I've learned that none of us KNOW exactly how someone else is feeling, I do have an inkling because I've traveled this same journey after losing both of my parents. I pray that you will find comfort and peace in your memories and the bask in the joy that comes from holding that tiny, soft body and smelling all of that baby goodness! God bless you!

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