Good morning, friends!
I woke up to the realization that I am one year older today. I look in the mirror, and I still don't believe it. I don't feel 52. But then, I never felt like I was 51, either. I'm grateful for this day, and for every birthday that came before. My maternal grandmother made it to 50 before passing away from cancer. She'd had a hard life and had eight children, one of whom died as a child because they couldn't her to the hospital fast enough. In contrast, I have been blessed with three healthy children and have watched them grow, in both faith and in years. I have a husband I love, a good job, and a gift of storytelling that I try to nurture and use well.
There's no doubt I'm lucky. Someone asked me recently if I thought I was successful and what it meant.
I had to think for a moment. Was success winning awards? I've won a few. And I've been on bestselling lists. Again, exciting. but if that was all that measured success, it would still feel hollow.
I guess it all comes down to my why. Why do I write? Why do I spend hours upon hours struggling to find the words? It all comes down to using the gift God gave me in the way He wants me to. I will admit, I got sidetracked this year. I became anxious and considered chasing dreams that were born out of the "Fear of Missing Out", otherwise known as FOMO, rather than seeking His wisdom.
It led to anxiety. Subconsciously, I knew I was not on the right path.
Then I went to ACFW. It was a time filled with friends and great learning opportunities.
I had no appointments. I had an opportunity to make a few. In the end, I let God handle it. I wound up having three very unexpected conversations that helped me to see that I needed to let go of some of the things I'd been chasing and realize God had placed me where I was for a reason.
Obedience. That is the grace I learned the last week of my 51st year. I cannot tell you how much peace I woke up with this morning. My heart is full of joy knowing that I will be writing another four Love Inspired Suspense books and a Guideposts novella in the next 12 months. I am renewed with excitement, wondering who God has in mind for the books to touch. Because we don't write in a vaccuum. God gives us gifts to touch hearts.
What has God taught you recently?
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Dana R. Lynn is a USA Today and Publisher's Weekly Bestselling award-winning author of romantic suspense and Amish romance who believes in the power of God to touch people through stories. Although she grew up in Illinois, she met her husband at a wedding in Pennsylvania and told her parents she had met her future husband. Nineteen months later, they were married. Today, they live in rural Pennsylvania and are entering the world of empty nesters. She is a teacher of the Deaf and Hard of Hearing by day and writes stories of romance and danger at night.
She is represented by Tamela Hancock Murray with the Steve Laube Agency. Dana is an avid reader, loves cats and thinks chocolate should be a food group.
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Hi Dana! Thank you for sharing this with us. God has been teaching me lately to be content with what He has blessed me with during this time and to not get in a rush for future things. He wants me to walk with Him day by day, trusting each moment and finding joy in the simpler things of life.
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DeleteTrust is the key word! Totally get this.
DeleteLove this post, Dana. You are SO right. We need to listen to that still small voice and obey. Thank you for reminding us. Happy Birthday, my sweet friend!! xo
ReplyDeleteThanks Darlene!
DeleteOHHH Dana. This is what I needed to hear this week, this day.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear it!
DeleteThank you for sharing, Dana. I've found myself wondering if I should do more, but more isn't always what God wants for us. I'm content where I am. You're amazing! Happy Birthday!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteYou go, girl! I think we both learned that "be still and listen" lesson this week. Happy Birthday!
ReplyDeleteIt was wonderful seeing you!
DeleteLove this, Dana! Thanks for sharing. Happy Birthday!
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
DeleteHappy birthday, Dana! I love the wisdom you shared in your post. <3
ReplyDeleteThanks!
DeleteHappy birthday, Dana!
ReplyDeleteThanks Mindy.
DeleteHappy Birthday, dear Dana! Such a beautiful family! So glad ACFW was fruitful. God speaks to us in so many ways, including conferences. You write four LIS books in a year and teach? Oh my! You are a busy lady. I'm impressed and I love your stories. Enjoy your special day. I know the Lord has wonderful things planned for your 52nd year! Hugs, love and birthday well wishes! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks! I missed seeing you!
DeleteHappy Birthday, Dana. Sounds like you have a busy year ahead. I'm glad ACFW was helpful to figuring out where you are going. I have been at the point of thinking I should forget about my writing, but I realized I am not ready to do that yet, so I am going to forge ahead. Enjoy your day.
ReplyDeleteBest of luck!
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ReplyDeleteI don't know why all my previous comments were marked anonymous.
ReplyDeleteAnd now it looks like I'm repeating myself.
ReplyDeleteIt was so nice to see you again in person! It's been ages! And you do not look 52. I would have said 40 at the most! I'm glad you allowed those serendipitous God moments to unfold at the conference, and I hope it gave you direction and peace. :)
ReplyDeleteAh Erica, my new best friend. When someone asks my age I'll send them to you!
ReplyDeleteIt was lovely seeing you again.
Happy Birthday
ReplyDeleteI would never have guessed you were 52! Like Erica, I would have guessed closer to 40. :-)
ReplyDeleteAnd I love the post - such wisdom!
I know exactly what you mean--chasing dreams built on FOMO.
ReplyDeleteLately I've learned that when I start feeling claustrophobic in life, I can find a mini-vacation in a book.
Thanks!
Beautiful words to sum up being successful, Dana. When we know who we're writing for, it makes the writing that much more exciting.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday! Like Erica and Jan mentioned, 52 is definitely a misprint on your birth certificate! I'm all for eating cake and ice cream the rest of the week!
Audra, the anonymous