Doubt is part of an author’s journey.
Any and every author, obscure or famous, struggles with believing they are good enough. That they’ve got what it takes to be a success, however they define success.
And there are hundreds of ways to define success.
But that, friends, is another blog post. (I believe I’ve already written one on this topic.)
There are lots of different ways to deal with doubt. Some well-known authors drink or do drugs. *cough* Hemingway … Faulkner … Poe … *cough*
Not recommending that.
Some authors look to their reviews to bolster their flagging ego. But what do you do with the less than positive reviews?
Other authors just ride the mental merry-go-round and go ‘round and ‘round, up and down, between doubt and confidence.
I’d like to suggest that being positive and proactive is one of the best ways to silence doubt. I’m not talking about reciting “I know my worth” self-affirmations. Although, if that helps you, please continue.
One way to step away from the writer’s search for significance is to stop thinking about yourself. Focus on another author instead. Go from woe-is-me to Yay-you by doing these simple things:
1. Share another author’s social media post about their book. We all know authors would rather be writing than marketing. But we also know writers need to market. Help another writer expand their social media reach by retweeting a tweet or sharing an Instagram post.
2. Share a quote from their book on your Instagram feed or story. No, you don’t need to be a full-fledged bookstagrammer with a bio and candles and props to do this. Keep it simple. Use a Picmonkey or Canva template and type up a quote. Or take a photo of the book’s cover and again, using a graphic design tool, add a book quote – maybe the first line? – to the photo. TIP: Asked to read a book for endorsement? This is a great time to write down quotes to use later.
3. Celebrate an author-friend’s book on its release day. We all love birthdays, right? It’s also fun to celebrate book birthdays, the day a book launches. Again, you can do something as simple as saying, “Happy Book Birthday!” on an author’s Facebook page. I’ve made a graphic that I post on authors-friends pages when they have a book birthday.
When you’re busy helping out other authors, it encourages them and it also cheers you up, too. Remember, when in doubt, help another author out.
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Beth has graciously offered to give away one copy of one of the books from her Thatcher Sisters Series! Winner's choice of which book (U.S. residents only, please). Let us know in the comments if you'd like to be entered.
Beth has graciously offered to give away one copy of one of the books from her Thatcher Sisters Series! Winner's choice of which book (U.S. residents only, please). Let us know in the comments if you'd like to be entered.
Check out Beth's new release from Tyndale!
How can you choose what is right for you when your decision will break the heart of someone you love?
Having abandoned her childhood dream years ago, Johanna Thatcher knows what she wants from life. Discovering that her fiancĂ© was cheating on her only convinces Johanna it’s best to maintain control and protect her heart.
Despite years of distance and friction, Johanna and her sisters, Jillian and Payton, have moved from a truce toward a fragile friendship. But then Johanna reveals she has the one thing Jillian wants most and may never have—and Johanna doesn’t want it. As Johanna wrestles with a choice that will change her life and her relationships with her sisters forever, the cracks in Jillian’s marriage and faith deepen. Through it all, the Thatcher sisters must decide once and for all what it means to be family.
Having abandoned her childhood dream years ago, Johanna Thatcher knows what she wants from life. Discovering that her fiancĂ© was cheating on her only convinces Johanna it’s best to maintain control and protect her heart.
Despite years of distance and friction, Johanna and her sisters, Jillian and Payton, have moved from a truce toward a fragile friendship. But then Johanna reveals she has the one thing Jillian wants most and may never have—and Johanna doesn’t want it. As Johanna wrestles with a choice that will change her life and her relationships with her sisters forever, the cracks in Jillian’s marriage and faith deepen. Through it all, the Thatcher sisters must decide once and for all what it means to be family.
AUTHOR BIO:
Beth K. Vogt believes God’s best often waits behind the doors marked “Never.” Having authored nine contemporary romance novels and novellas, The Best We’ve Been, the final book in Beth’s Thatcher Sisters Series with Tyndale House Publishers, releasers May 2020. Other books in the women’s fiction series include Things I Never Told You, which won the 2019 AWSA Award for Contemporary Novel of the Year, and Moments We Forget. Beth is a 2016 Christy Award winner, a 2016 ACFW Carol Award winner, and a 2015 RITA® finalist. An established magazine writer and former editor of the leadership magazine for MOPS International, Beth blogs for Learn How to Write a Novel and The Write Conversation and also enjoys speaking to writers group and mentoring other writers. Visit Beth at bethvogt.com.
Beth, welcome back and congrats on your newest release. Your words are wonderfully geared to our goal of helping authors, writers and readers to get through this pandemic and feel like they're re-taking control of their lives... Encouraging writers to write... and readers (God love them all!!!) to read.
ReplyDeleteSo nice to have you here today!
Ruth: I love being here because Seekerville is such a positive, encouraging place for authors, writers, and readers. And during this time of COVID-19, we all need encouragement -- and we get that from one another.
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ReplyDeleteBeth, these are such good ideas and so necessary. We need to support one another, especially in today's fragile publishing climate. Visit each other's blogs, buy each other's books, and oh did somebody say "review"?
ReplyDeleteAnother aspect, and one I've struggled with, is "don't compare." Don't compare yourself to other Christian writers -- their sales, their ease in getting an agent, the agent they got! And especially their gifts and particular talent. Your own gifts and talent wait to be developed, and they won't look like anyone else's. this is one I grappled with right up until I was published.
Keep an encouragement file. If you're unpubbed it can be good contest feedback or good conference feedback; if you're published it can be your best reviews. I cannot recommend this one too highly, it got me through a lot.
The other thing is either God is in this or He isn't, and we have to learn to trust Him to get our words in the hands of the right readers. Sometimes that doesn't look the way we thought it would. Okay, hardly ever.
Tying up loose ends today with my newspaper work and the nonfiction book. Hope to get back to editing tonight and tomorrow. I have a Christmas novella and the draft of the third book in "Western Dreams" to edit this month, Work Cut Out For Me.
This post has pinned my feet to the fire and I'm also going to bang out some overdue reviews for my friends.
Kathy Bailey
Your Kaybee
Making it work in New Hampshire
Kathy, what great words of wisdom!! This is my favorite: "...either God is in this or He isn't, and we have to learn to trust Him to get our words in the hands of the right readers."
DeleteThat's a tough one but so true! Thanks for sharing. I hope you have a productive month! Congrats on being on the third book in the series now!
Missy, good morning. Yeah, I learn everything the hard way, but at least I learn it.
DeleteKathy: So much good in what you say! And yes, positive reviews are gold to an author. I learned that truth from author Cynthia Ruchti and I thank God for each one. "Comparison is the thief of joy," so say Teddy Roosevelt, and he was absolutely correct! You walk the path God is directing you to walk and write the stories God has given you.
DeleteBeth, thank you for this great post! We're so glad to have you back today.
ReplyDeleteI loved this quote: "Go from woe-is-me to Yay-you..."
Yes! I love that advice. As Ruthy said, that's why we started this blog! We wanted to support each other and others like us in the journey to publication. Besides, supporting others makes everyone feel good. :)
Missy: Hello, my friend! Yes, you all understand the power of supporting others. It's life-changing. Motivating. It's encouragement lived out loud.
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ReplyDeleteCongrats on The Best We've Been! What a beautiful cover.
I'm heading to FB to do something to celebrate your book. Thanks for these great tips!
I love that you're doing that, Jackie! Bless you!
DeleteJackie, Your words brought tears to my eyes and a smile to my face. Sending you a hug, friend.
DeleteSuch great advice, Beth! Focusing on others is such an amazing way to get over "yourself". What is weird is that I found that while focusing on caring for my husband after his accident took away my fear of the pandemic. It wasn't focusing on me-me-me...it was all him-him-him. I think it rings true for life in general. Loving God and loving others is truly the most important things.
ReplyDeleteI soooo love the covers of your books. They really draw me in and are "fresh". Congratulations on your newest book baby!
Sherrinda, you are so wise. That's the way we are all going to get through it, hopefully without more husbands having accidents.
DeleteSherrinda, that is such a great lesson we can all learn. I know when I get stuck in my own head, the very worst of me comes out.
DeleteI'm so glad your husband is doing better!
Sherrinda, you are so wise, my friend. "Loving God and loving others is truly the most important things." Thank you for saying it so succinctly.
DeleteGreat post, Beth. I have to always remind myself not to compare with others. This book series looks good. Please put me in the drawing.
ReplyDeleteSandy, comparison can be such a negative in our lives. I'm so glad that God loves each of us!
DeleteSandy: Comparison is always a trap we have to watch out for -- no matter what our career path. It's okay to learn from other writers, but stand strong in who we are -- our strengths, our creativity -- and celebrate others' successes. Love the quote about someone else's success doesn't mean I am a failure.
DeleteOne more thought from Your Kaybee, which came to me while cleaning out one of my flower beds:
ReplyDeleteWe can also help other writers by being transparent. This is where Seekerville totally gets it. The multi-published authors freely share their triumphs AND their struggles, which helps writers on every level. And it gives insight into every level of the writing journey. When Sandra retired a couple of years ago I wasn't published yet, and I was horrified that someone who was published would give up what I was working so hard to achieve. Well, publication came to me after more hard work, and I see things a bit differently. Maybe there will be a time I want to relax and play pickleball with my husband or whatever. Sandy showed me that writing isn't The Only Thing.
Other writers, on this site and other blogs have freely shared their disappointment in lines closing, dry spells etc. Transparency and sharing encourage writers on all levels.
Going out now to buy plants! This is a great day!
Kathy Bailey
Encouraging and being encouraged in New Hampshire
Kathy, that is so true. Sometimes social media only shows what seems like "perfect" lives. We have to always realize we don't know what's going on behind the cameras. Our real lives are full--with the good and the not so good sometimes.
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ReplyDeleteDoubt is normal. It's said in some professions that if you don't have doubts, you don't understand the situation. This is why fools rush in where wise men fear to tread. This is also why so many people feel insecure: they have seen all their faults all their lives from the inside out while as to others they only see the faults visible on the outside.
Writers have seen the faults with their work at every stage along the way. Readers only see the finish product. That's why when a writer reads something they wrote a year ago it can seem so much better they even doubt if they wrote it.
Doubt is normal and it can be your friend because just as rational fears can save your life, reasonable doubts can mean you're on the right path.
This reminds me of the contemporary criticism of Picasso because his famous portrait of Gertrude Stein did not look like her at all. Picasso said, "Just wait, it will."
Yes, please, place me in the drawing. I love the question you ask:
"How can you choose what is right for you when your decision will break the heart of someone you love?"
There is always more than one right way. We just have to have the courage to open our eyes and see what we have yet failed to see.
That's easy to say when you don't know a thing about the situation. :)
Vince
P.S. To encourage authors I like to find something they do better than anyone else who I've read and tell them about it. It must be true of course but there is almost always something they do very well if they are good enough to be published.
Vince, you've been great about pointing out the positives! It's been very encouraging to me!
DeleteVince: Yes, doubt is normal -- but learning what constitutes a "reasonable" amount of doubt can be the challenge. This is why it's so valuable to have a writing community, trusted writing friends, who help us get out of our heads. We balance one another, pull each other back from the brink, encourage one another, and help each other that failure is part of the process.
DeleteVince, you're always generous with your praise. In my opinion, that's a lovely gift from God!
DeleteCongratulations, Beth, on the release of the third Thatcher Sisters book....and PLEASE put me in the drawing for this one! I so enjoyed the first two....and love the Colorado setting.
ReplyDeleteAs a doubting writer myself...(Are we all?)..., your thoughts uplifted me. Focusing on other authors and celebrating their dreams does provide the “feel good” thoughts. Thinking of ways to highlight their books brings me joy. Thank you for the inspiration for quick ways to help others.
Sherida, I'm so glad you came by! It was a very inspiring post.
DeleteThanks, Sherida, for those encouraging words about the Thatcher Sisters Series! And I love living in Colorado, so it's easy to use it as a backdrop for my novels. Although, it is cold here today ...
DeleteHi Beth,
ReplyDeleteI am an avid reader who loved your Thatcher Sisters books and am very anxious to read this one! Lovely cover! Thanks for your giveaway.
Hi, Jackie: I love the cover designs for this series. The process was so easy, and I so appreciate how the artist captured each sister ... and the emotion that I'd hope for with each book.
DeleteJackie, we're glad you stopped by!
DeleteCongratulations on your new book! I love the covers and it is so cool to see the books together. Thank you for the giveaway.
ReplyDeleteAngeline: I've always loved the name Angeline -- it's so feminine. And yes, I love seeing the Thatcher sisters together at last!
DeleteAngeline, thanks for stopping by!
DeleteThese are fun tips. I have two author "sisters" I constantly do this with. We cheer each other on and encourage one another, and I am pretty sure I wouldn't have my third book coming out this year and a contract in the works for my fourth without them. As much as people say being an author is an alone thing, I disagree!
ReplyDeleteAmy, I'm so glad you have a writing support group! Mine has made all the difference. :)
DeleteIt's true, Amy, that there are solitary aspects to the writing life. But we creatives need one another. We "get" one another.
DeleteSuch a lovely post, Beth. So glad you could be with us today. I love your advice about supporting other authors! We're a community--a small community--and reaching out in friendship and support can touch both the giver and the receiver.
ReplyDeleteYour series sounds captivating! Beautiful covers!
Yes, Debby, our blog is a wonderful community!
DeleteDebby: I love how other authors, both friends and mentors, so willingly share advice. The "this worked" and "this didn't work" practical type of advice that makes such a difference.
DeleteThis is really good advice. Beth. Thank you. I do this some but I need to do it more!!!
ReplyDeleteMary, I need to do it more, too!
DeleteMary: I have to remind myself to look up from my manuscript, look away from myself, and consider other writers. They hope and dream for the same things I do.
DeleteAs a reviewer I doubt myself that mine don’t measure up. Good advice. I loved the first two books of the Thatcher Sisters. Put my name in the hat please. Blessings
ReplyDeleteThank you, Lucy, for saying you love Payton's and Jillian's stories. I'm excited to have Johanna's story out there for readers.
DeleteLucy, I think reviews are very difficult to write!
DeleteLovely to have you here today, Beth! I love your positive outlook! So cheering! Congratulations on your book release!
ReplyDeleteI need a little post it reminder on my computer...have you said something nice about a fellow author/author's book today? And do it until it becomes a habit! :)
Hi, Erica, it was fun to connect earlier today and then here again at Seekerville. I love your Post It Note idea!
DeleteErica, I love the sticky note idea!
DeleteThanks for the thought-provoking post, Beth! I think most people, not just writers, have periods of doubt. I know I do. It's hard to always be confident. I love your idea of complimenting and promoting other authors. I'm not a writer, but I do enjoy promoting uplifting books and recommending them to others. It's fun to read all the posts on Seekerville. So many amazing people here!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your new book! I've read the first one and loved it, but I haven't had a chance to read the others. Throw my name into the drawing, please!
Winnie, authors so appreciate recommendations!
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