Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Guest Blogger V. Joy Palmer


Erica here: It is purely my pleasure to introduce to you my friend V. Joy Palmer. Joy is everything her name implies! I met her at an ACFW Conference, and she could not be any cooler! I'm so glad she agreed to visit us at Seekerville today, and I know you'll make her welcome. 

Take it away, Joy!


I love spit-in-your-face-to-kissy-face romances. There’s just something about the enemies-to-sweethearts trope that is so. much. fun! Case in point, Pride and Prejudice.



We should get this out of the way right now… Yes, my favorite movie adaption of Pride and Prejudice is the 2005 version with Keira Knightly and Matthew Macfadyen. This was my very first exposure to Jane Austen’s stories, and I will forever love it because of that fact. Can we still be friends?

Moving right past that awkward plea, let’s get back to the awesome literary sauce that is (to channel all the Baby Yoda memes) the stabby-stab-to-kissy-kiss trope.

I love how this trope can add that extra spice of sarcasm with a side of burning bickering to romances in any genre! From the classics hate-to-love couples like Han Solo and Leia from Star Wars to Joe Fox (NY152) and Kathleen Kelly (Shopgirl) from You’ve Got Mail.




To the trope within a trope. The slow burn, will-they-won’t-they couples like Luke and Lorelai from Gilmore Girls to the second chance romances like Melanie and Jake in Sweet Home Alabama.




To Cary Grant because no list would be complete without a Cary Grant appearance, such as I Was a Male War Bride!




In my biased opinion, Cary Grant personifies the standard that all other heroes should be measured against when it comes to snarky romantic tension!

Wow…I’m potentially making a lot of enemies with that statement… Forgive me!

Ultimately, my favorite aspect of the enemies-to-sweethearts trope isn’t the laughs it provides but rather the way I can see God softening hearts, redeeming lives, and breaking lies that hold hearts captive! I love seeing characters who screw up, who’ve made bad decisions, who put their giant feet in their big mouths, who definitely say the wrong thing once or twice…or two dozen times. I love these characters because I am one of these characters in the story God’s writing with my life. His love, forgiveness, and grace covers so much in my life, and I love writing characters that get to experience these things!


Whether it’s second chances at love or botched first impressions or unrequited love sprinkled with family drama, the initial fighting makes the ending so much sweeter for me – to watch, read, and write!

But perhaps my love for a bickering yet wonderfully sappy story was destined to be. Maybe it all goes back to that day twenty-two-ish years ago when my own enemies-to-sweethearts story started on a school playground. That’s where my future husband said, “Girls are stupid. Your doll is stupid.”

Rude, right? It’s okay; I got even with him. Who’s laughing now, buddy?

That’s right. Me.

Because I’m the writer.

*mic drop*

What are some of your favorite stories with a hate-to-love thread?




Isabel “Izze” Vez, bridal consultant extraordinaire, has been helping brides find The Dress for years. She loves nothing more than helping make wedding dreams come true…but sometimes the happy endings grate on her. How many times can a girl discover someone else’s gown without dreaming of the day it’ll be her turn to wear one?

When James Miles Clayton walks into her life, he represents everything Izze can’t handle: change. He’s determined to bring the Ever After Bridal Boutique into the black…and to prove to Izze that she should give him a chance.

But if there’s anything Izze handles worse than change, it’s trust. She may have a few issues—fine, she knows she does. But will they keep getting in the way of any chance of her own Happily Ever After? She wants to trust God to give her those dreams of love and lace, but that’s going to require some…minor alterations.
Read a sample HERE!




Seventeen years after being orphaned, Apryl Burns and her twin sister Courtney have their own expectations for life. While Courtney continues to shine at everything, Apryl holds fast to the mantra that as long as her potato chip stash remains intact, then she'll be fine.

But when their beloved grandmother ends up injured and unable to manage her struggling antique store, Courtney makes it their mission to revamp the business and save what's left of their family's legacy. Despite rampant doubts in her abilities, Apryl finds herself trapped under the weight of family loyalty as they transition to a wedding venue decorating service. Soon she's forced to ask (translation: blackmail) their grandmother's renter/handyman, Chance McFarland, for hep, an arrangement that is made even worse by the fact that Chance is her former (ahem, and current) crush.

Chance knows a few dozen things about family loyalty, which is why he begrudgingly agrees to Apryl's insane plan. While Apryl claims they're archenemies, the girl Chance only glimpsed in their teens starts to emerge, stealing what remains of his heart.

But expectations are a powerful thing. Amidst the glamorous weddings and swaying willows, can those old expectations be revised into something new?
Read a sample HERE!


V. Joy Palmer is the author of Love, Lace, and Minor Alterations and a member of American Christian Fiction Writers. She is also an avid blogger and co-founder of Snack Time Devotions. In her spare time, Joy is an unprofessional chocolate connoisseur/binger, and she loves acting crazy and drinking coffee with the teens she mentors. When Joy isn't urging the elves that live in her computer to write, she's hanging out with her husband, their adorable baby girl, and their socially awkward pets.



Joy is giving away a reader's choice of either of her books, print or ebook to a US resident, or ebook to an international resident. Leave a comment answering Joy's questions (Go ahead, scroll back up to read the question....) and we'll draw a winner!

35 comments:

  1. Don't hate me for deleting the comment that promised that Dr. Odela could BRING YOUR LOVER BACK FOREVER with his love potion.

    I know.

    I know.

    It was presumptuous of me to think that none of you want a love potion. My bad.

    I'm sure (eye roll) there must be an Amazon link to the potion. I will leave that in your very capable hands, friends! :)

    It's a Tuesday.

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    1. I deleted him off yesterday's post too, Ruthy. I have to believe that the SeekerVillagers are more than capable of finding their true love without Dr. Odela's help! :)

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    2. LOL! Well, if Amazon has links for canned unicorn meat, then I'm sure Dr. Odela's overpriced mineral water will find its clientele without any issue!

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  2. Oh my stars, Joy, this was delightful! Your words and images took me back to some favorites, thank you!!! And your covers are so engaging.... love 'em! Thank you so much for being here...

    So this is Shrove Tuesday. Fat Tuesday. Pancake Tuesday. The all-you-can-eat day before Lenten fasting begins for so many, so I'm making pancakes (lighter than air!!!) for all today. Pecan topping... berries... real maple syrup.... as you wish!

    Welcome Joy here and we'll man the griddle and the coffee pot!

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    1. Pass the syrup! :) Happy Shrove Tuesday, Ruthy!

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    2. Thank you so much, Ruth!! You guys are awesome, and I'm not just saying that because of the pancakes and coffee! *wipes drool from corner of mouth* Though...it is a nice perk! ;-) Happy Shrove Tuesday!

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    3. Hubby and I are going to our church tonight to eat pancakes. I'm excited because I have typically worked on Tuesday nights, but this year I don't, so I get to eat pancakes!

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    4. Yay for pancakes and Tuesday nights off!!

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  3. So great to have you here, Joy! I love the hate-to-love trope as well, but I'm not sure I can add anything to your list. You've got all my favorites here!

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    1. Thanks so much, Glynis! I'm glad I covered all your favorites! Narrowing down that list was a lot harder than I expected...and not listing all my favorite Cary Grant movies has left me in need of serious Pancake Therapy! <3

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  4. Good morning, Joy and all! Love the post. Love Hate-Into-Love romances.

    Some of the links in today's post are giving us some trouble, but we're working on fixing those ASAP! Thanks for your patience!

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    1. I think I have the links sorted! :) Yay!

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    2. Yay!! So sorry for the troublesome links!! *facepalm*

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  5. Joy, welcome! What a fun post! I love the enemies to "lovers" trope, too! But I'd never heard your term for it before: stabby-stab to kissy-kiss. hahaha I love that!

    I hadn't thought before about the reasons for this type story resonating so well with out faith. Thank you for drawing that parallel!

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    1. typo correction: resonating with OUR faith

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    2. LOL! Thank you so much, Missy! I'm glad you enjoyed my weird sense of humor, a lovely blend of nerdy and awkward.

      And thank you again! Fictional or not, I love seeing how God works in the "stabby-stab-to-kissy-kiss" stories!

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  6. I also enjoy these types of romances. I love the stories you mentioned, although my fave Pride & Prejudice will always be the BBC/Colin Firth rendition. I saw the Keira Knightly one, but all I could think when I saw Darcy watching her (standing in the rain, maybe?) was: Stalker Darcy. *Eek* He did not make me swoon! But I love the story of Pride & Prejudice.

    And I love Cary Grant. I haven't seen the one you mentioned, but I thoroughly enjoyed The Philadelphia Story and An Affair to Remember.

    Congrats on the book! It sounds like a fun story!

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    1. LOL! I definitely see your point, Beth! I always viewed Keira Knightly's Elizabeth as being a little into Darcy despite the bad blood between them, so it never struck me as a potential Mace moment. The Dobler-Dahmer Theory at it's finest, LOL!

      Those are also wonderful Cary Grant films! I had sooo much trouble not listing all my favorite Cary Grant flicks, LOL!

      Thank you, Beth! <3

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  7. Well, way to suck me in, Joy! I now want to read both of your books AND I just ordered Pride and Prejudice so I could watch it again. Have you ever considered being a spokesperson on a home shopping channel, because you'd probably be really good at it.

    I love those enemies to lovers stories, too. Sweet Home Alabama is one of my all-time faves. Which has me wondering why I haven't written one. I need to correct that.

    Thanks for joining us here at Seekerville, Joy. It's been a real, well, joy. Seriously!

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    1. Mindy, you've just helped me discover an unrealized dream. A dream that I've unknowingly been strengthening all of my Lorelai Gilmore abilities in preparation for all this time. Look out, HSN! Here I come!

      Yes, I would love to read that!

      Thank you so much, Mindy!

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  8. Hi Joy:

    What a wonderful post! I think you are the first one in ten years on Seekerville to side with me in liking the Keira Knightly P&P the best! Keira was the same age as Elizabeth when the film was made and she had just the right balance of spunky pride and youthful insecurity. She was also the most beautiful Elizabeth and I can fully understand how Darcy could not ultimately resist her. I couldn't either!

    As for Cary Grant, I also agree with your comment, "In my biased opinion, Cary Grant personifies the standard that all other heroes should be measured against when it comes to snarky romantic tension!" -- if you want it done with class. (Of course, Sophia Loren and the "Slap" added a little 'slappy-slap' to the mix in "Houseboat".)

    Did you see "Casablanca"? Bogart may do it better but without the class. And Spencer Tracy, "Woman of the Year", does it in a 'Lou Grant' kind of way.

    The thing about "kissy-kiss-to-stabby-stab" is that it offers maximum conflict. It fits in with the natural observation that 'opposites attract'. It's like 'the moth to the flame' thing and, as in that example, I often wonder if after the stabbing, kissing, and romantic climaxing, it's not very far getting to back to "stabby-stab" again!

    Have you ever read a HEA where you think to yourself, "That marriage will be lucky to last a year"? There are not too many romances with the theme of "remarrying your abusive ex". (Though Mary came close with her "The Bossy Bridegroom" -- which I loved, BTW).

    For a book with great conflict I really enjoyed, Janet Dean's, "The Bounty-Hunter's Redemption" in which the hero kills the heroine's outlaw husband after winning the wife's dress shop in a poker game. He then goes to court to evict the widow so his beloved handicapped sister can take over the dress shop and find independence.

    Can you imagine being an editor and getting a proposal for that book?

    I think the trick to these themes is always having lots of interesting, ever evolving, conflict.


    Okay, now I really want to see how you do it in your books. Please place me in the drawing. I hope something above counts as an answer to you some of your questions.

    Vince

    P.S. Curious minds want to know: "What does the V. in your name stand for?

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    1. Hi, Vince!

      Yay! Happy to meet another 2005 P&P fan!

      Houseboat is another one of my favorites! Sophia Loren and Cary Grant are absolutely brilliant in that. However, now the game they play with the children will be stuck in my head for the next thirty-six hours...LOL!

      Those other leading men are definitely good, but like you pointed out, I just love how Cary Grant does the snarky, hate-to-love trope with such class! *dreamy sigh*

      That ever-evolving conflict is definitely important, leading up to that moment where the stakes are raised in the ultimate push to trust each other. I like to have my characters blow it here because I love showing God's redemption through their mistakes.

      Love your taste in books and movies with the hate-to-love trope! Thanks so much for hanging with me today!

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  9. I Love the movie Sweet Alabama it is one of my favorites Your book sounds like a great book Thanks for sharing with us today!

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    1. Yay! It's such a fun movie! Thanks so much, Sarah!

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  10. Fun post, Joy. Pride and Prejudice is one of my favorites. I can never come up with examples off the top of my head to answer these questions. However, Julie Lessman's books come to mind as great examples of enemies to sweethearts.

    I saw Sweet Home Alabama but don't remember anything about it. I may have to watch it again.

    Please enter me in the drawing. Your books look good!

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    1. Thanks so much, Sandy! I'm the same way; my mind goes blank when I'm trying to answer these questions. Julie Lessman is definitely a great example!

      Yes! I highly encourage the rewatching of Sweet Home Alabama!

      Thank you!!

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  11. Is the trope the first thing you decide on for a new story?

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    1. Awesome question, Tonya!! Overall, I think the central conflict keeping the couple apart is what I decide first. I'll get a whisper of an idea for a character (usually my heroine) and wonder, "What would screw up this person's entire fictional life?" Then enters my hero. ;-)

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    1. Thank you so much, Lucy!! So glad to see you here!! <3

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  13. Joy, I love all your movie choices! The only other one I'd add would be Leap Year.

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    1. Hi, Megan! Yes, Leap Year should definitely be added to the list! I love that movie! "Just put 'em the wash; they'll be grand."

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  14. Thanks for your fun post Joy. After your confession to your favorite movie adaptation of Pride and Prejudice, I'm not sure we can be friends. 😉 (after all, Colin Firth MADE Mr. Darcy for who he is to film...lol).
    My favorite ROM com of all time is You've Got Mail - Meg and Tom got that trope down (BTW Judy Garland's The Shop Around The Corner was the original story...quite cute...no Carey though in that one). I agree with you on the enemies to lovers trope. There's so much one can do with it!

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    1. LOL! ;-) Differences in P&P adaptations aside, I am loving your taste in RomCom's, Lee-Ann! Meg and Tom are always some of my goals with this trope! And I agree with you; the original story in The Shop Around The Corner is so cute.

      There definitely is! I love seeing how storytellers can use this trope! Thanks for hanging with me today!

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